Dating app reviews: the ten mainstream apps

You are about to install one app, and you want it to be the right one. Each review answers the same questions in the same order, so you can compare two apps in a few minutes and choose with confidence. Every review opens with who the app is built for and what makes it a poor fit, because the second list is usually the one that saves you time.

Tinder review

Best when you want the smallest possible start: one photo, one swipe, and no essay before the app shows people.

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Bumble review

A good fit if a handful of live conversations beats a long list of dormant matches, and you can reply inside the window.

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Hinge review

Choose it if you would rather write a real answer than pose for a photo, and you want the first message to have a subject.

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Match review

For a reader who knows the criteria and would rather set them than be handed one profile at a time.

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Plenty of Fish review

Happy to lead, comfortable writing first, and willing to sort the inbox yourself: the design rewards that temperament and gives you the tools to filter.

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OkCupid review

For the reader who would rather answer questions than write a bio, and who wants a reason beside every suggestion.

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Zoosk review

It suits you when writing a long profile a second time is the part you dread, and being shown people suits you better than filling in a form.

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Badoo review

For a reader who will open a conversation first, in a busy market where an open inbox is an asset.

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eharmony review

A thorough questionnaire suits you if you have settled on a long-term relationship and would rather answer once than browse for months.

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Coffee Meets Bagel review

It rewards a short daily visit: a handful of considered options, then a clear stop rather than an endless feed.

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What every review answers

Two apps can look identical in a list of features and feel completely different to use. The reason is that the feature that decides your experience is usually a structural one, such as who is allowed to write the first message or how many people the app lets you see in a day, and structural differences do not show up in a feature list.

So each review covers the same ground in the same order: what the app is, who it is built for, what makes it a poor fit, how matching works as a mechanism, what the design is built for, what the free tier allows, where it stops, what the paid tier adds, what the app does better than its rivals, why people leave, and where its design works against you.

One thing no review on this site can tell you is how many people near you are using the app. That is the factor that decides more outcomes than any setting. It is local, and it changes constantly. The method page explains why that is the limit of what any review can honestly claim.

How we research a dating app

When the choice is close

Where two apps are close enough that the choice is a real question, they get a page of their own.

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