Dating app comparison

Hinge vs Bumble, Tinder vs Hinge, Match vs eharmony: each of these is a real choice, and each pair turns on one structural difference. These pages name it, then explain what it changes about the pace, the conversation and the paywall. Read the pair you are deciding between, or start with the one you were about to install.

How to choose between two of them

What happens after a match? Some apps open the conversation for both people at once and leave the timing to you. Others hold the conversation shut until somebody sends the first message, which puts a clock on the match and another on the reply. This is the difference that changes how an app feels more than any other, and it is invisible in a feature list.

Who does the filtering? On a search-based app you set the criteria and the app assists. On a curated app the app decides and you react. On a swipe app nobody filters by intent, and you find out in the conversation. Each of those suits a different kind of person, and none of them is wrong.

What does paying actually buy? Three shapes exist. Some apps charge for the conversation. Some charge for information about who already liked you. Some charge only for visibility. The first decides whether you can use the app at all, and the other two decide how much of it you get.

Nothing on this site quotes a subscription figure, because the figures change by country, by age and by the week. What stays still is the shape of the wall, and that is what the comparisons describe. The guide to free dating apps sorts every app on the site by where its free tier stops.

The whole roster, reviewed

Every app in the roster, in one place. Each one has a full review covering the same ground in the same order.

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